After much google,ing and faffing, i have managed to
- get my SIP softphone (VOIP) to connect to my asterisk box at home with out the use of a VPN
- Get RPC over HTTP email to work
- setup WEBDAV over SSL access to my file server
So I no longer need the VPN to do normal networky stuff to home, the only reason i need the VPN now is to trick Sky Anytime into thinking I am in the UK, and that is only the gui client, the peer to peer service does not give a stuff, so once i have requested the video, i can drop the VPN !
I am Glad i am NOT paying to the t-mobile WiFi usage !!